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The same questions, written down.


There are no episodes yet. But I’ve been thinking about this stuff for a long time, and there’s no good reason to sit on all of it until episode one is out. So it goes here.

If any of it sounds like the inside of your own head, that’s the point. The guest chair is open if you’d rather say it out loud, and the list gets one email when episode one lands.

  1. Being Human

    Feeling Invisible After 50

    Seventy percent of women say it happens, on average at 52. Men report it at 64. Here is what being invisible actually means, and what it is not.

  2. Being Human

    How to Be More Real When Everyone Is Performing

    Being real is not the opposite of posting, and it is not confessing more either. Here is the question that sorts one from the other.

  3. Being Human

    How to Stop Performing for Other People

    Every list says just be real. None of them say why the act is so hard to put down. Here is what mine cost me, and what finally started to shift.